Talking to an agent friend the other day, I heard about a situation where an author posted something inflammatory about a publishing professional on a social networking site. The comment wasn’t targeted at a specific individual, but at a group of people who work at the publishing house that is putting out said author’s book.
When confronted about the possibly damaging content of the message, the author didn’t see the agent’s point of view. Instead, this author got indignant and refused to take it down. This drew the ire of several bloggers and, much to the woe of the agent, got more attention than intended.
I’m all about freedom of speech. However, I think what this author did is not very smart. The thing they posted was most likely hyperbolic, potentially intending to be funny, and probably typed in the heat of the moment. That’s all fine and good but, now that it’s out on the Internet, it’s out there forever. Attached to this author’s name.
Here’s a tip for online decorum: if you think it might be taken the wrong way or if you’re having a crabby day as you type it, you probably shouldn’t post it. Especially if it could sour relations between you and your agent or the house publishing your book. More importantly, if the agent or anyone at the publishing house confronts you about the rant, maybe think about taking it down. Don’t become an even bigger Royal Pain In The Butt by insisting upon your rights and personal freedoms to leave it up.
The only right you end up retaining by behaving badly and then stubbornly defending yourself is the right for other people to consider you an ass.
The children’s publishing world is small. There are only so many editors and agents out there. Once you get a reputation as a “difficult author,” it can be hard to buck. So what’s more important? Hot-headed rant or the relationships that will keep you getting published for years to come? Sounds like a no-brainer to me.
I didn’t think this needed repeating but apparently I’m wrong: people read what you write online. You know that, right? Otherwise you wouldn’t write it. Well, consider all the ramifications before you lose your temper at someone in your chosen industry.
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That’s all fine and good but, now that it’s out on the Internet, it’s out there forever.
^ So true. Especially with such things as emails and instant messages. Once you click “send”, you can never take back what you said. Even on sites/blogs. If something is deleted, it’s usually too late. People have already seen it and the damage is done.
What surprised me is that this person defended what they did and refused to take down the message. Doesn’t seem very professional (not that I’m an expert on professionalism).
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I have seen things such as what you’ve described, and it’s shocking. I assume that everything I do online, from emails to Facebook comments, is public domain. Now that I’m a published author (and an author of a book about a girl who blogs about things she shouldn’t, no less), I’m extra careful about what I put online.
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This advice - “be careful what you post” - is true for any professional.
Sometimes I see celebrities who appear to be engaged in fake Internet disputes, intended to attract media attention or Internet followers. These kinds of phoney spats are pretty easy to spot, however, and don’t endear the person to book-buyers or fans in the long run.
Better to be polite and to think before you click in all circumstances.
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I’m surprised the comments didn’t get taken down, I know that if I ended up in that situation I would probably beg for forgiveness (although, I hope I never post anything like that anyway). I remember a story around a year ago about a woman who was posting things about her boss on her blog, and she got fired…so apparently blogging isn’t the best way to vent.


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