Regular Creative Writing Practice Will Boost Creative Confidence

Writers, I want to take a moment to talk about the importance of developing a regular creative writing practice. Sometimes “the muse” is feeling coy, other times, inspiration seems to flow. The push and pull of the creative life changes with our lives. Sometimes we have more hours in the day and more energy to devote to creativity. Other times life seems to explode around us, eating up and choking all of our creative oxygen (read for tips on finding time to write). Sometimes we write and get in the groove and keep writing. Other times we stop.

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Creativity is our mode. That’s what we do. Life is also creative. That’s the point.

Take Responsibility For Your Creative Writing Practice

I firmly believe that people are creative beings. (Why, yes, I did grow up in California, with a painter for a mother and a dad who used to live on a Buddhist commune…why do you ask? That’s how come I can say “creative beings” and talk about the “Universe.”) Creativity is our mode. That’s what we do. Life is also creative. That’s the point.

For all of you out there who are still struggling to validate your own creative impulses or give yourself permission to create — both of which are really hard for some people to do — I say: Get cracking with developing a regular creative writing practice. That’s the first step in fulfilling the rest of your creative dreams. Everybody has them. Not many people get around to honoring them, and then that disappointment tends to fester. If you feel really damaged or self-conscious about your deepest desires to write or paint or do performance art on a street corner, for goodness’ sake, run out and get a copy of The Artist’s Way, buy a journal, meditate, go into therapy, shut your kids out of your office, and do whatever else you have to do to take some responsibility for your creativity. Once you do this, you’ll start building writing confidence (or whatever you chosen artistic pursuit is).

Life Is Full Of Excuses

What’s that? You have no time to devote to creative writing practice? Or work is too hard and leaves you too tired? Or you’re trying to go back to school? Or you’re sick and in pain? All perfectly valid. However, all are excuses. As I tell my clients: You are the only person on this planet who is going to care the most about your creative output and your career. Sure, you will get people in your corner, like your agent, your editor, your mentors, your friends and family, you cat, and your fans, who will care about your books or whatever else you do, but nobody will care about it half as much as you. (I do work hard to be a close second for my clients, though!)

Fear Is Good

Instead of this idea being empowering and liberating to a lot of people, it’s paralyzing and scary. It means you have to take responsibility for your creative ideas. It means you actually have to do something and make them happen. It means that you have to face (gasp!) obstacles and failure. Sure, there’s fear in every endeavor, but that’s good. That’s the way it works. I’d rather live a life where I’ve followed my dreams, been myself, created, lived big, failed a lot, succeeded more often, and experienced as many things as possible. Unfulfilled creative people really are the worst…they’re bitter and resentful, they blame everyone and everything else for how little they accomplish, they pull dark gray clouds along with them as they walk down the street.

Lots of people have really valid issues when it comes to devoting time to creative writing practice: parents who weren’t supportive or present, real economic hardship and family obligations, societal pressure to conform, lack of writing confidence. I don’t mean to mock or make light of these things. But they are all negative. Creativity is positive. (California, remember?) And creativity doesn’t have to mean something big: a million dollar book deal, a novel completed in a month, a sleeper hit music video (ahem, Rebecca Black), a poem published, an agent secured after the first round of queries.

Creativity Can Be Something Small

One page a day, one journal entry in the morning, one picture taken, one walk at sunset (read about five daily writing practice techniques). But the point is opening yourself up to it…and then being disciplined with your creative writing practice. The more you do, the easier it becomes, because you’re building confidence in writing or painting or performance art. Be creative regularly; every day is best. Do it for its own sake, not for the sake of the outcome (book, agent, publishing deal, etc.). Just create. Nobody will do it for you, you’re gonna regret it if you don’t, and time’s a-wastin’. What are you waiting for?

Developing your writing skills is a great way to shake off a creative slump. Hire me as your freelance editor and we’ll work on building your confidence in writing together.

37 Replies to “Regular Creative Writing Practice Will Boost Creative Confidence”

  1. Woo! I am tweeting this to high heaven! Good one, Mary. Happy Monday to ya!

  2. I’ve always thought of my creativity as a muscle; unless I exercise it, it’s not going to be strong. Sure there are people who are just naturally better at writing/painting/kitting/basket weaving than I am, but I’ll get better if I try harder, work more and make the best effort I can.

    Thanks Mary!

  3. Great post for me to read before I dive in to my own muck of deepest desires – we are on the same page, lady! 😉

  4. Thought I was going to go floor shopping, stop at the drug store and library. But instead, I read through a stack of middle grade novels, got my laptop on my lap, stayed in my sweats the whole weekend and wrote, wrote, wrote. The Universe called.

  5. Definitely needed the creativity pep-talk today (er, this whole month). Thanks!

  6. Mary *

    I needed this pep talk to start my week. Thanks for the wonderful creative nudge!

  7. Caitlin Ownby says:

    Wow, that was inspirational 🙂 . You mentioned how we all have excuses on why we can’t write. It’s true! There’s always something that gets in the way and makes us too tired to give writing our all. For a long time, I was searching for a way to make it easier on myself, but more and more, I think that I will only get writing done if I’m able to give up sleep and entertainment and comfort for something much greater in the long run 🙂 . Writers also need to stare failure in the face for 10 years or more before becoming a master novelist. Thanks for the post!

  8. I adore your “musings” Mary! Thanks for encouraging all of us out here in cyberspace. Someone once told me that even if you manage to touch even just one person with your creativity, then you’ve made an impact. I often have to remind myself of that, even if that one person is just me. Happy Monday!

  9. Love this post. Creativity is a muscle and needs to be worked daily in some form. Thanks for the fun, well-said reminder 🙂

  10. Thank you Mary, loved this! I am always seeking opportunities as a writer so I can give my self a creative-deadline. First I started with conferences and then I recently got excepted into the Nevada SCBWI Mentor Program. Its awesome having those creative-accountability factors when you’re trying to make dreams come true. BTW the mentor program is AMAZING for growth…highly recommended!!

  11. This is all so true. I am an artist/woodturner/maker-of-things and I can come up with a whole slew of reasons not to get off my butt and create. My creative mojo is getting kicked into high gear after reading this. Thank you.

  12. KDuBayGillis says:

    Was “stuck” in workshops for my day job this week and during some sessions on data modeling and what not, I started jotting down picture book ideas. You just never know where inspiration and creativity will strike. I needed this little pep talk after feeling like work is sucking my creative juices dry. Thanks!

  13. Thank you kicking our collective creative butts. As far as my biggest creative supporters my cat Sasha comes in at a strong number three behind boyfriend and critique partners.

  14. Jackie Yeager says:

    Thanks for the timely post Mary. It was just what I needed! I devoured every word. 🙂

  15. Exactly what my heavy hands needed today. My fingers feel lighter already. Brilliant. Thank you.

  16. Amy Christine Parker says:

    Very nicely put! I am not a big fan of the “M” word either. This post puts the whole idea in a much more practical space. Creativity has to be pursued sometimes, wooed almost before if flows. I know sometimes I have to fight for writing time-tiny people have little patience for creativity, but even if I only get a few minutes here and there, it’s forward progress. I especially love the last line-word!

  17. Mima Tipper says:

    Thank you, Mary! Really enjoy the variety of your posts. They are always thoughtful, and usually exactly what I need to read to boost me over my latest wall.

  18. I can testify to the truth of the statement about being bitter and resentful when creativity is suppressed. I’m slowly learning that it’s better to take 15-30 minutes out of grading time to do a little writing than to let the resentment build up and damage productivity. (the problem is that my “muse” wants more and more!)

  19. What a great kick ass post…

    Instead of ‘muse,’ consider what American writer Elizabeth Gilbert imagines about “fairy juice” as an image of the creative process…(Check out her fabulous talk on the TED lectures about nurturing creativity.)


    It’s a different way of thinking about creativity, like it is on loan to you, it is a gift to you, and it’s up to you what you make from that amazing ‘loan’

  20. No cat has ever been in anyone’s corner as far as I know. So you’re wrong on that point. Otherwise: hear, hear!

  21. A-muse-ing. I have issues with puns too. Muses and puns are too pithy for me. Thanks for the pep talk…I’m going to stop reading and start writing. Cheers.

  22. Peter: My cat is thorougly in my corner. How did I do it? I give him “soft food” only once a day (hard food the rest), and usually at night after he’s engaged in his own hunger strike (he hates hard food and lets me know it!). Also, I only give him soft food after he nudges my leg with his nose at least twice and has purred while circling around me for no less than 15 seconds. Finally, when I open a can of glorious meaty bits, he’s so grateful that I can get him to do practically anything I want . . . which means nothing other than more nose nudges and circles, since, you know, he’s a cat 🙂

    Oh, btw, Mary, great post. And I used the word “muse” in one of my classes today just for you.

  23. I had to come back and say thanks for writing this post, Mary. At the time that you posted, I had just started back at work after having a baby and I was feeling like I would never have time to write again. What you said about taking responsibility really inspired me, and since then, I’ve managed to carve out time to finish revisions on my WIP and send it to critique partners. Thanks for the kick in the butt 🙂

  24. Mary Ann Duke says:

    Some of my accomplishments were so difficult, if I’d known in advance (10 years to get novel , THE CHICKEN CATCHERS, done) would I have started the book? My tenacious nature wouldn’t allow me to give up.

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